TIFFANY Meets World

Thursday, September 3, 2009

San Diego-- Elissa's Wedding-- Vacation!

eLiSsa'S BrIDaL SHoWeR!

She had to answer questions about Ev and if she got them wrong she had to chew another piece of bubble gum!! Hehe!

It was sooo much fun planning this shower with Elissa's sister! I'm usually in the wrong state and can't help out with wedding stuff, it was soo much fun to be around and help Elissa out!

Friday, August 7, 2009

Do's and Don'ts of Dating Tiffany

Do...
1. Make the first move.
2. Plan the date.
3. Open the door.
4. Make me laugh.
5. Hold intelligent conversations.
6. Tell me you like my perfume.
7. Talk about life and little things, even stupid things.
8. Walk me to the door.
9. Hug me.

Don't
1. Talk about other girls and/or refer to other girls as really beautiful on the date.
2. Talk about old relationships.
3. Talk about how you're excited about the division of labor for when you married. (I know it will inevitably happen and I'm sure I'll love it...but without the most eloquent of words I might not know where you're going with it and think you expect me to be your slave and not your wife, just saying...)
4. Talk about how it's hard to know if you're the one on the first date.
5. Talk about how you don't know what to do with your life and how you have no direction. (Once again, let me clarify. It's okay if you don't know exactly where your life is going...you just have to have some sort of game plan. I am after all finished with school, working full time... as much as I want to be your sugar mama...)
6. Tell me that I can pay next time. (I really don't mind paying/taking turns, but when you tell me I need to pay next time, it sends mixed signals.)

This is a work in progress... but all of these do's and don't are a result of my past few dates! Really, I'm not that easy to please... Can you believe some of those don'ts?? I promise I'm not picky... I just want to be respected, loved, appreciated...yada, yada, yada.

Monday, July 27, 2009

New Record... 5 Dates in a Week!

Haha!!! 2 different guys... still no boyfriend, dang! Life's a dance, you learn as you go...

I have learned so much about myself through dating these guys and I've learned a lot about the male species:). I was impressed with both guys...one more than the other. I have a lot of hope now; hope for myself in becoming the kind of woman I want to be in a relationship and a lot of hope in finding a guy that has lasting qualities... You know being single isn't that bad... it's the not knowing if you'll find someone you want to spend the rest of eternity with is the hard part... Right now I feel soooo blessed because I've discovered some things that I need to do in my life to make me feel more complete and more confident in dating. Tonight at FHE two guys got my number... it's amazing how when you do your part how the Lord helps you out... :). Oh and those guys I went out with I'm still friends with both of them and I love that we can be "grown-ups" about it...no playing games... it's awesome... I'm still learning how to date, don't get me wrong, sometimes I feel like a 7th grader trapped in a 26 year old body!! But alas, life is good. Oh and another thing, both guys were set ups, well kind of, long story...set ups aren't that bad after all :).

So there you have it! My dating update, lol...sorry married friends, I know this might be a lame post for you... :)